Comments on: Advice From A Single Dating Expert’s Girlfriend http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/ Because who knows more about dating than a guy who's still dating? Mon, 08 Sep 2008 16:35:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.3 By: Mike http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8010 Mike Mon, 12 May 2008 18:19:51 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8010 Oh this is gold. Oh this is gold.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8011 Jennifer Mon, 12 May 2008 19:30:59 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8011 This girl is THE TRUTH! Loved this post and so glad you re-ran it, as I missed it the first time. This girl is THE TRUTH! Loved this post and so glad you re-ran it, as I missed it the first time.

]]> By: Steve http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8012 Steve Mon, 12 May 2008 20:08:03 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8012 Wow...just wow. I wish there were questions about this essay every girl's and woman's driving test. What a beautiful world it would be. EGF, if you ever get tired of Evan I know of another single atheist of European Jewish descent :) "Advice From A Single Dating Expert’s Girlfriend" - great title for a book. I'm serious Wow…just wow. I wish there were questions about this essay every girl’s and woman’s driving test. What a beautiful world it would be.

EGF, if you ever get tired of Evan I know of another single atheist of European Jewish descent :)

“Advice From A Single Dating Expert’s Girlfriend”

- great title for a book. I’m serious

]]> By: cinnamon http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8015 cinnamon Mon, 12 May 2008 21:24:34 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8015 Great post! Especially the final part of it: " (he) would end up feeling like he had to walk on eggshells around me for fear that I will interpret something he says in a way that could upset me, even if that is clearly not his intention. So he would end up having a different persona with me than he does with any of his other friends." Definitely spurred a few thoughts (and memories) in me. Thanks! Great post!
Especially the final part of it:
” (he) would end up feeling like he had to walk on eggshells around me for fear that I will interpret something he says in a way that could upset me, even if that is clearly not his intention. So he would end up having a different persona with me than he does with any of his other friends.”
Definitely spurred a few thoughts (and memories) in me. Thanks!

]]> By: Single Mom Seeking http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8035 Single Mom Seeking Tue, 13 May 2008 14:54:14 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8035 I remember this the first time around -- and it's great to read it again. Thanks so much... that's coming from a very emotional woman. So, Evan, when are you going to propose to this amazing woman? That's the big question. I remember this the first time around — and it’s great to read it again. Thanks so much… that’s coming from a very emotional woman.

So, Evan, when are you going to propose to this amazing woman? That’s the big question.

]]> By: Leslie http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8036 Leslie Tue, 13 May 2008 15:02:18 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8036 She's good....wise and a good writer. I've read this post before and parts of it stuck with me. Now reading it a second time I find even more value. I'd love to hear from your girlfriend (I don't think you've written about her by name) more often. She’s good….wise and a good writer. I’ve read this post before and parts of it stuck with me. Now reading it a second time I find even more value. I’d love to hear from your girlfriend (I don’t think you’ve written about her by name) more often.

]]> By: Kay http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8039 Kay Tue, 13 May 2008 17:42:51 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8039 Hi Evan, This was a good article. Your girlfriend makes a lot of sense. It's a good thing all of us aren't as in tune as she is otherwise you'd have too much time on your hands. I'm wondering when we’ll be hearing your wedding bells too. You seem to have found a wonderful woman, so what are you waiting for? Its okay Evan, you can still give advice on being single and dating even if you get married, because I hear the best way to have a successful marriage is to treat your husband or wife, like you're still dating… and you are the expert. Take Care. :) Hi Evan,

This was a good article. Your girlfriend makes a lot of sense. It’s a good thing all of us aren’t as in tune as she is otherwise you’d have too much time on your hands. I’m wondering when we’ll be hearing your wedding bells too. You seem to have found a wonderful woman, so what are you waiting for? Its okay Evan, you can still give advice on being single and dating even if you get married, because I hear the best way to have a successful marriage is to treat your husband or wife, like you’re still dating… and you are the expert. Take Care. :)

]]> By: Steve http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8041 Steve Tue, 13 May 2008 19:01:58 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8041 <i> <b>Kay May 13th 2008 at 09:42 am 7</b> Hi Evan, This was a good article. Your girlfriend makes a lot of sense. </i> Only the U.S. Mint makes cents.
Kay May 13th 2008 at 09:42 am 7
Hi Evan,
This was a good article. Your girlfriend makes a lot of sense.

Only the U.S. Mint makes cents.

]]> By: Steve http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8043 Steve Tue, 13 May 2008 19:18:57 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8043 <i> <b>Single Mom Seeking May 13th 2008 at 06:54 am 5</b> So, Evan, when are you going to propose to this amazing woman? That’s the big question. </i> Evan, I can get you out of this one... SMS, Evan wouldn't have much respect as a dating expert if he didn't make use of knowledge that he has. It has been mentioned a number of times on this blog that scientists now believe that the feeling known as romantic love lasts between 1 - 3 years. It has also been mentioned on this blog that while people are in that zone, they are likely to minimize incompatibility issues with the other person, if they notice those issues at all. Romantic love temporarily disables a person's judgment in regards to who they are with. So, the most rational time to decide whether or not you should marry someone is after the romantic love phase has worn off and your full judgment in regards to that person has been fully restored. Evan hasn't been dating is girlfriend for the maximum of 3 years yet.
Single Mom Seeking May 13th 2008 at 06:54 am 5
So, Evan, when are you going to propose to this amazing woman? That’s the big question.

Evan, I can get you out of this one…

SMS, Evan wouldn’t have much respect as a dating expert if he didn’t make use of knowledge that he has.

It has been mentioned a number of times on this blog that scientists now believe that the feeling known as romantic love lasts between 1 - 3 years. It has also been mentioned on this blog that while people are in that zone, they are likely to minimize incompatibility issues with the other person, if they notice those issues at all. Romantic love temporarily disables a person’s judgment in regards to who they are with.

So, the most rational time to decide whether or not you should marry someone is after the romantic love phase has worn off and your full judgment in regards to that person has been fully restored.

Evan hasn’t been dating is girlfriend for the maximum of 3 years yet.

]]> By: JNez http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8153 JNez Fri, 16 May 2008 21:44:34 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8153 nothing really groundbreaking here. when two people genuinely are in love with and care about each other, it works because they make sacrifices to ensure their partner's happiness. when one partner is alone in love, it doesn't happen. most times we are alone in love, and once in a while, we hit the jackpot and find "the one". hopefully you've found yours. nothing really groundbreaking here. when two people genuinely are in love with and care about each other, it works because they make sacrifices to ensure their partner’s happiness. when one partner is alone in love, it doesn’t happen. most times we are alone in love, and once in a while, we hit the jackpot and find “the one”. hopefully you’ve found yours.

]]> By: Michele http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8200 Michele Sun, 18 May 2008 16:59:12 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8200 Mike (1). Her post sure is GOLD, as well as pertinent to any age group, SES and both genders. Mike (1).

Her post sure is GOLD, as well as pertinent to any age group, SES and both genders.

]]> By: vino http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8243 vino Tue, 20 May 2008 17:43:30 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8243 Golden Rule Section especially good Golden Rule Section especially good

]]> By: the foreigner http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8455 the foreigner Tue, 27 May 2008 18:28:04 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8455 This was a great post, I hope you'll continue writing. Though I've always wondered exactly _what_ to do when I'm getting the silent treatment from a woman. Should I ask about it or pretend like it's raining or..? Thanks =) This was a great post, I hope you’ll continue writing.

Though I’ve always wondered exactly _what_ to do when I’m getting the silent treatment from a woman. Should I ask about it or pretend like it’s raining or..?

Thanks =)

]]> By: hunter http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8581 hunter Fri, 30 May 2008 17:31:16 +0000 http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/advice-from-a-single-dating-experts-girlfriend-part-deux/#comment-8581 Having to work with herds of men all day, I have learned to "tighten" up my conversation if a woman is present. Women are different, they don't talk like men do. This lead me to walk on eggshells for years..... Having to work with herds of men all day, I have learned to “tighten” up my conversation if a woman is present. Women are different, they don’t talk like men do. This lead me to walk on eggshells for years…..

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