Comments on: What Do I Do With a Girlfriend Who Literally Sleeps Around?

By: mike paahana

mike paahana — Sun, 06 Jan 2008 22:53:39 +0000

i know my gf fooled around b4 so now i jus have sex with any girl that i want to with an i don’t even feel bad caus its jus about sex

By: Selena

Selena — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 20:57:05 +0000

I agree with the attention-getting aspects of this behavior. Obviously, as “a test” it’s not a successful one in getting a relationship, since it has yet to bring her one.

Victoria, along with explaning Marc’s very real concerns to her, you might point out how this behavior just isn’t working for her in terms of finding a relationship anyway. And also, since it seems she has done this so much, isn’t it only a matter of time for the word to spread about what a tease she is? She might miss out on the great relationship guy simply because he reputation has preceded her.

By: Roger

Roger — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 19:26:53 +0000

All I can say is that it amazes me to what lengths some people will go to get attention. Victoria, your friend is literally being cruel to these guys and playing a rotten mind game just to get attention. Either that, or she is simply so naive she doesn’t know what she’s doing to them. Either way, she should stop immediately.

By: lyric

lyric — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 18:54:29 +0000

Victoria your friend is very lucky to have you!
Mr. Katz is right. She’s playing with fire. Good for her that she hasn’t been burned but for how long? Keep in mind though that you can only advice her but not force her to follow. Just do the best that you know how to make her understand the danger without smothering her.

By: JimmyE

JimmyE — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 10:56:15 +0000

I think there’s a good comparison to be made here between previous posts about men who use the promise of commitment in order to get sex, and this woman’s friend, who uses the promise of sex in order to get attention.

Although she may complain taht she never promises anything (just as men never literally promised to commit) she is aware how her actions will be interpreted, and this will get men to behave in a way they otherwise wouldn’t.

In both situations I think there’s a bit of an ego trip going on. Some men like being pursued by women they don’t want a relationship with. Some women like men who they don’t want to sleep with making a pass at them. I certainly wouldn’t take this girls frustration and anger at face value,

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Thu, 11 Oct 2007 08:31:46 +0000

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