Subscribers to my newsletter already know about this, but I wanted to open it up to you as well.

I’ve been listening very closely to your requests over the years. And the same things come up, over and over:

• "Why do people email me, then suddenly stop writing back?"
• "How can I keep my ego up after this much rejection?"
• "How come I’m not attracted to anyone who writes to me, yet
  the people I write to aren’t responsive to me?"
• "What can I do to make sure my first dates are more
  enjoyable?"
• "Is there another website that would be more effective for my
  goals?"
• "It seems I’m being unfairly discriminated against based on
  my age. What advice do you have for someone like me?"
• "I’ve followed all of your techniques, Evan, and it’s STILL
  not working for me. What do I do now?"

These questions are straight from YOUR calls and YOUR emails to me. Now I want to give you the support you need to take your love life to the next level.

On Wednesday, July 16th at 9:00pm EST / 6:00pm PST, I will be hosting a FREE one-hour teleclass designed to answer your most pressing dating questions. Entitled "How to Have A Successful Love Life (Even When You Want to Give Up!)" this class is FREE.

That’s right: FREE

Have I mentioned that it’s FREE?

Yeah, it’s been a rough summer financially and I really wanted to give something back to you for being a loyal reader. I really hope you enjoy the call.

Here are the details:

Who: You, if you’re still single and interested in finding love.
What: A FREE dating coaching teleseminar
Where: Click here to register now!
When: Wednesday, July 16th at 9:00pm EST / 6:00pm PST
Why: Because it has everything. You. Me. Questions. Answers. And the ever-present potential to have a breakthrough that
helps you find the partner you deserve.

Talk to you soon.

Evan

 

Hi Evan,

I’m new to the online dating thing. So, my questions are these:

(1) You suggested a 6-month subscription to an online dating service. Clearly the odds of success are better the longer you’re out there, but is there anything statistical about that?

(2) What are your thoughts on signing up for one service versus multiple services?

And finally…

(3) Do you think paid services are "better" than free ones (i.e. you get what you pay for)?

 
Tracy

Hey Tracy,

I generally don’t answer three questions for the price of one, but since they’re pretty straightforward and I don’t have to worry about hurting any feelings, I’d figure I’d knock ‘em all out at once.

So, since you’ve already answered your own question for #1, I’m certainly not going to refute you. And while it’s great to be able to back up my big claims with statistics, I’m just gonna go with logic on this one:

While I can’t guarantee the results of six months on Match.com, I can promise that you will ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY, 100% NEVER meet a person online if you quit online dating entirely. You can meet him at the grocery store or at a party, but this relies on random happenstance, which, unfortunately, doesn’t yield as many first dates as we’d like.

So, as I see it, even if your chances of meeting Mr. Right on eHarmony are 1 in 100, that’s infinitely better odds than if you’re not on eHarmony.

Detractors will talk about the effort and the frustration and the liars and the rejection – and they’d be right. All I can do is point to the alternative – no dates – as the reason why one must persevere.

Any woman who ever told me that she hated online dating felt justified by her negative experiences. So she opts to have no experiences instead. And while there’s something safe about not dating – no disappointment, heartbreak, and jackasses, to name three things – solitude doesn’t lead one to relationships.

Dating, specifically online dating, does.

So, as I’ve said a thousand times, your job is to be in it for the long haul, instead of thinking that a lone month on a dating site should magically pop out your future spouse. Quitting only guarantees fewer opportunities, and fewer opportunities means fewer chances of meeting “The One”.

Next: one online dating service vs. multiple online dating services. …

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