Comments on: Taking Down Your Profile http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/ Because who knows more about dating than a guy who's still dating? Fri, 05 Dec 2008 02:03:06 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Michael Ejercito http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-4787 Michael Ejercito Sun, 17 Feb 2008 00:17:59 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-4787 If he is not yet her boyfriend, then she is still available. Profiles can be set to "hidden" on most sites like Match.Com. If he is not yet her boyfriend, then she is still available.

Profiles can be set to “hidden” on most sites like Match.Com.

]]> By: J http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-3760 J Mon, 14 Jan 2008 23:54:51 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-3760 My apologies - good grammar and correct typing has been somewhat lacking in my posts. My apologies - good grammar and correct typing has been somewhat lacking in my posts.

]]> By: Dating Trooper - Dating is Warfare http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-84 Dating Trooper - Dating is Warfare Fri, 04 May 2007 22:43:39 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-84 I'm with loverville. Maybe I oversimplify but if we haven't had "the talk," there is no promise of exclusivity. Of course, many of us can't handle dating a few people at a time without going crazy, so if you end up exclusive with someone "by default," it doesn't mean they're exclusive with you until it's discussed. Plus, the girl damn well knows you can see when she's logging on to the dating site so maybe she's doing to to PROVOKE the conversation? Just a thought.... I’m with loverville. Maybe I oversimplify but if we haven’t had “the talk,” there is no promise of exclusivity. Of course, many of us can’t handle dating a few people at a time without going crazy, so if you end up exclusive with someone “by default,” it doesn’t mean they’re exclusive with you until it’s discussed. Plus, the girl damn well knows you can see when she’s logging on to the dating site so maybe she’s doing to to PROVOKE the conversation? Just a thought….

]]> By: Loverville http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-83 Loverville Thu, 03 May 2007 05:24:29 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-83 Can't it be as simple as this: at some point you have "the talk": Are we dating other people? Do we want to be exclusive, complete with "boyfriend / girlfriend" label? <br/><br/>If you decide to be exclusive, then you later notice that she's still logging in -- it's worthwhile to address that. Can’t it be as simple as this: at some point you have “the talk”: Are we dating other people? Do we want to be exclusive, complete with “boyfriend / girlfriend” label?

If you decide to be exclusive, then you later notice that she’s still logging in — it’s worthwhile to address that.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-82 Anonymous Thu, 03 May 2007 02:37:45 +0000 http://advicefromasingledatingexpert.com/taking-down-your-profile/#comment-82 Currently, this female happens to be seeing someone and in the exact same position. And, truth be told, I am not sure if we are both checking on each other and prolonging the chase or not. I am an old-fashioned, of sorts, and believe that any man should take the lead- right or wrong this is where my beliefs lie. And since the gentleman I am dating has not mentioned it, I do not want to limit my options for fear that he is dating many different people. Rest assured, though, in my case as long as I see his active I will continue to be active. My suggestion would be for you to let her know where your head is at. Too, I have many friends who will follow in my same footsteps and wait for the man to take the lead. So, I do happen to have a differing opinion and do not believe that most times "she's just not that into you", I actually believe it is just the opposite- I think for many who are new to online dating- and this might be her, as well- she has insecurities about exposing her feelings for fear of anticipating too much too soon in this very complex world of dating. Hope this helps, and best of luck to you! Currently, this female happens to be seeing someone and in the exact same position. And, truth be told, I am not sure if we are both checking on each other and prolonging the chase or not. I am an old-fashioned, of sorts, and believe that any man should take the lead- right or wrong this is where my beliefs lie. And since the gentleman I am dating has not mentioned it, I do not want to limit my options for fear that he is dating many different people. Rest assured, though, in my case as long as I see his active I will continue to be active. My suggestion would be for you to let her know where your head is at. Too, I have many friends who will follow in my same footsteps and wait for the man to take the lead. So, I do happen to have a differing opinion and do not believe that most times “she’s just not that into you”, I actually believe it is just the opposite- I think for many who are new to online dating- and this might be her, as well- she has insecurities about exposing her feelings for fear of anticipating too much too soon in this very complex world of dating. Hope this helps, and best of luck to you!

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